'A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away' my wonderful friend Lynne Hazelden played Karie Neth, a rebel fighter pilot in the Star Wars film Return of the Jedi. December 14th would have been Lynne's birthday: December 16th was her funeral.
Lynne died December 3rd 2013 from the recurrence of breast cancer she had tried so hard to overcome. Her mother and grandmother had also died from breast cancer so it was, perhaps, inevitable that Lynne herself would eventually go on to do so too.
Very recently, while listening to an internet radio interview Lynne had given three years ago, I heard her tell how at the age of twelve she had felt she had nothing to live for when her mother died. However, as her story unfolded, it became clear what a remarkable transformation had taken place in Lynne's life as a result of a change of mindset.
Lynne became determined to make the most of every chance and her life one that was worth living. She was the kind of person who never said 'that's not my job', but instead would see opportunities to learn and to grow. Her positive attitude and willingness to try new things brought Lynne a hardworking but happy life, one in which she was concerned with helping others.
I got to know Lynne two to three years ago, initially through her Facebook page for her Kinder Cancer Choices website. Unable to tolerate conventional treatments due to a severe allergic reaction, she was fundraising for alternative cancer treatments via the charity Yes To Life. Not just for herself but for others. It was Lynne's dream to help create a peaceful world, one in which no-one would go hungry and where a potential cancer cure would become available to all.
Today it is hard to believe that Lynne has gone. For me, as for so many who knew her, her words are an inspiration and her spirit lives on. Her JustGiving page for Yes To Life remains active, with Lynne smiling and vibrant in her photograph as friends continue to fundraise in her memory for a cause that meant so much to her.
Since Lynne's recent death I have reflected on her life. I have come to believe that the force was not simply with Lynne but that she herself was the force. Long may Lynne continue to be with us all.
Love Rose x
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